Sunday, 26 April 2020

Fear of Loss?

Afraid of losing the person you love?

Sometimes it all change and you won't see the happy fancy forever partner to pamper you anymore.Things change and don't break down behold and understand he never understood!And be happy for all the good moments.Love is not just for once it can happen anytime but may be you won't to able to replace him sometimes still be grateful that you are surviving. Most depressive is when you know he moved on and doesn't have the same feelings which you possess but oh dear! You can't expect anything from anyone. He just came to show you some new dimensions of life. Nobody should be your first priority and that's something which will save you! If You are happy rejoice it, things will fall in place.


Between...


Come on people! Still have to ask Whom are you afraid of, I don't understand why most of us are still in nutshell and not speaking out... Like if you are committed and want to shout out to the world about the person you love..why do you hesitate? .. Same as when you have a breakup why do u contain the pain all by yourself share to your closest and feel relieved! But No you wont because you think its shame to expose your relationship status and pain ... I barely can agree to this since i know society or those gonna bitch around wont give me happiness or food when i need. Still Thinking about society? Be more than thoughts because containing it all won't help .Even ,you should be happy if you had a breakup because if its meant to be it can still bring you both together again.. And definitely if not meant to be you still had many happy moments! Try grab over the positive of everything.. Be transparent! Be happy that at least you tried. That's important to me, may be that could help you as well.


Its important to make yourself at peace no matter what it takes.


Love

-Rare Voice-

Scars of Strength




scares inflicted through deception with
unbearable pains from ultimate betrayal
Suppressed emotions flowed from my heart
blood became ink , scribbled upon paper

Protected within my cocoon of darkness
my transformation began, as I saw light
In silence , I learned the art to listen
what I thought my pain, was my savior

Life was no longer an unknown labyrinth
as I watched negativity leave my logic
My soul searched for safety , silently
seeking a spiritual sanctuary of solitude

Reflecting upon life ,I let go of yesterday
no more dwelling upon the fate of tomorrow
Inspired by today , I live in the moment
reaching out to those who care to listen

border is no contradiction of terms
even without voice , my message is clear
for it speaks volumes, without saying a word
those who try to bring me down ,only make me stronger!

-Rare Voice-

Let me put a smile on that face.

Already smiling? Thats great! Let me make it brighter then.

So, It was my 22nd birthday few days before and i cant explain how exciting the entire day was.And  don't know why strangely how i can feel the change in me, i find it too beautiful to think about the minute nuances of life, and that's when i thought to share a note with you all about how to stay positive and happy no matter what comes in between.

So, what makes life complicated first of all? Let me make some wild guesses..Hmm...
1.Thoughts about future?
2.What society thinks?
3.Will my parents be proud of my doings?
4.Am i going in the right path?
5.Confused with too many advice's?
6.Things not falling in place?
7.Complicated Relationship's?
8.Identity Crisis?
9.Self-Conscious?................ ###goes onnnn###

Let me ask you one thing, Does it even worth spending time bothering about all these mediocre thoughts! Do you aspire for a low life chanting about all these stupidities?

Basically once you have a clear mind and clear thought about what you want in life and what you mean to people you have in your life,you don't have to be bothered at all.Because a person with clear understanding about the self and one who is ready to accept and rectify mistakes happily wont stand a chance to look back or grieve.

Things i would suggest you to do to make days brighter are listed below,and based on your schedule prioritize it.

1.Make sure you have quality time for yourself
2. Set time to engage in social networking sites
3.Read MORE BOOKS!!!!
4.Cultivate Disciplines about everything in life.
5.Do keep yourself and surrounding fit and hygienic(Basically keep your body and mind engaged in work don't be lazy)
6.Spend quality time with family, Talk about possibly everything,Make a good rapport.
7.Create a good Friends circle(Even if small make it a like-mind, ambitious and smart one ) 
8.Keep improving,sharing and lending hands to once in need
9.Don't forget to SMILE even if you fall down, get broken or shattered
10.REPEAT

I am sure there are lot more that you can do to make yourself better and happier,I would indeed be overwhelmed to know what your magic to life is.Feel free to share them up. And these are few of my inputs.
Life is a beautiful journey to a  truth which is death , Make sure you make a point to the world .Make your journey a slow and beautiful one because if you know what you are doing and if you have not committed your priorities to  someone else and if you understood the reality of life,you will shine like a star if not for all definitely for your-self.And for me that means a lot because satisfaction is a hell lot more pleasing than any other feeling.
Make it worth while living, surrender your ego and trust upon the transparent energy of existence,find your own source of motivation,Grow proudly as a person, Commit and Correct  mistakes, Smile and make others Smile.because for me if i find a person being this,i will never let go of that greatness because its too difficult to be one.

-MOTIVATED BY THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING BY PEALE
-Rare Voice-

Life - The lalaland

Life is a unique mixture of emotions,
While you feel the hasty has happened
Wait ,life brings up the most beautiful stories to you
While you wait for the storm to pass
The flower bed is what it kept for you.

The drifts which it brings with it's own pace,
Is the best surprise you never want to loose.
Once you taste the delicious fruit of life,
Out of no blue moon will you stop reaching out for more.

Magic is all it have in it,the rare aroma of emotion
While we never realise how dimwit are we to fail to life,
Miracles are the precious gifts of the Fantasyland
I believe in miracles and so is my life one.

Some days it's not mine, but I know big things take time
Through the down I preach to be happy as I am getting ready for big
Why to be sad when nothing Wentworth and you still got time
Rather give life it's freedom to cause the magic that it planned for you.

Never loose of your curiosity
Wait and don't be idle ,be fun
Get up and find your way
Laugh at the downs and hold up to the hills.

-Rare Voice-

The Need to be true to yourself.

What's the whole point of being pretty on the outside when you’re so ugly on the inside?, Yeah so this is something which was always a big matter of wit in my head. Certain moments use to leads me to a pause before reacting to some faces, like um-mm... haven't you had that moment when you know that the asshole smiling in front of you have stabbed you behind ? yeah right? .. so that's what i am talking about , i use to pause and think if to smile back or to make it bitter , ha ha i know that sounds weird but being quite headstrong i use to show how badly i hated those creeps. So then there were those society gurus who tried feeding my mind with thoughts like ,"you have to fake a smile even if you hate them" .Sorry, but why!!?

Life is sooooo damn small dude, and its normal to feel bad, anxious, curious, happy, grief, guilty ,blah,blah.. etc. But it doesn't definitely demands any of your moment to be spend faking. See what if you show it on your face if you envy someone?maximum you loose that person right, but whats the use in having that person with so much of hatred in your mind.Look its NO ROCKET SCIENCE ! its just as simple as showing it out!!.. and at least that prevails an opportunity for the person to know that your equations changed and he/she has to put efforts in right direction to build it up. Thats exactly what you do if you fall in love. If you feel a person is so much important in your life, wont you put your 100% to get him/her glued to you?? Or will you just let it go!. No way right?.. at least you will make sure the person knows your feeling, right?. So is the case with spreading all emotions , all the emotions have to be liberated at the very right time. Thats good for your mental peace, yeah certain situations demand silence, patience and all those neutrality but use your senses and understand that not always keeping things to yourself can help you. You have a life, its worth once you start liberating your emotions in such a way that its neither hurting you nor the other.That means if you feel stuffed keeping certain things to your head talk it out to the right people, people are always ready to help you!. 


Some of them just be so comfortable in that fake zone where the answers to all there problems begin and end .It's funny how few are nice to our face right?,isn't it hilarious how they talk shit behind our back, and it's downright comical that they think we are unaware of it. I personal enjoy this particular drama, and always made sure to let them know how i felt about it,which definitely will make few hate you , let them nah because who has to stay will stay.whats the point in living unless you acknowledge your own thoughts and be proud to express it ,nobody else can do it for you!. The silence that you give them, and the smile that you fake back are the feeding grounds to those weeds. Our society needs honest, jovial, sincere humans not Full time jerks or actors!. The proper bitter responds to these situations will lead to a miraculous change to entire system of cliche bonds and will find you the best people to count on. Understand change is changing, so should we,but make sure its for good. Karma pays you for why you do things not for what you do! So now ball is in our court , kick it in your signature way and play the game you like but don't fake.


-Rare Voice-

Wait for it.

Have you ever wondered why its taking long for you.. whereas all the others have found it down already?.. OK so you might be wondering where i am taking it right? 

Never in blue moon did i expect things to happen the way it did , Some days i use to go crazy thinking about answers for my why's which it still on run. We all have our principles for life right? Like Some of you are taking it the way it comes.. while some plan and plot the entire scene(which hardly works ;)). For some life is small and to be cherished like never before, while some dedicates it entirely to the monotonous world pitching its meritocracy. Few doesn't even care about any senses of so called limits and resistance invoked ,while the other bunch is cultivating a sensitive sequel of mediocrity.Let me ask you one thing, Where do you stand in this world of superior controversy and pragmatic dramas?.. Ain't it really funny!!! ha-ha i know it euphemistically is.


Well i have seen people who worked really hard all through the years and still couldn make it to their dream, at the same time people who were average and never too ambitious got into dream positions. On a rather close analysis all i could understand was either the work they put was streamed into wrong directions or they will have to wait for the right time,because on an optimistic note we can never compare whats happening in peoples life to each other because everything happens for a reason , definitely karma exist and it pays you back,all we can is to keep trying..there is no point in giving up or giving in. Just be really strong and go with the intuitions.


 Life is a game which is keeping me excited every single moment ,and in every phase of it .The unique peaks it takes me have already made me addicted to it, which makes it totally out of the world kind of feeling.

Everyday what do we wake up to? For me its towards a big mystery,chapter, bundle of emotions, and never a hurdle or obstacle .Whatever is waiting is a big surprise! Bend it in your own way, improve your own skills, compete with your own self , achieve and give rewards to the pure soul, appreciate , correct and analyze yourself. Because, guys you have got ample time only to evaluate and prosper yourself .On the go lend your hands to people who needs you, and spread love and gratitude .

Strategies for life can be really impulsive, because everything cant be prepared before hand?who knows whats waiting.. Be a smart player, get a grip over your story and enjoy the dimensions of your own evolution. Still life's mantras be incomplete and lot more to dig into because every lives on earth has its own unique ways,to know it all takes lifetime and more. Be your own spot and the best story to be ever told, that's how you can have your own fairy-tale. At-least now lets show fairy tails have much more than a sugary love story to be loved for, make it a complete blockbuster . Mine's at work 🔝 . Stay tuned. 

One at a time

"And you will know something new is going to happen, Just go for it."

Health, happiness and success is a synergetic function of the mind, body and soul. Your mind has a powerful influence on the way your body functions and ultimately the direction of your life. Mindfulness, means to pay attention to your own thoughts and emotions and set an appealing start of “attention” for your desire.
Living with soulful intentions is to begin each day with an attitude of health, happiness and prosperity. We are unstoppable and powerful when we direct our emotions toward the higher levels of consciousness. Levels of consciousness is actually a way to measure one’s attitude, and positivism.  Be grateful of what is immediately within your heart the moment you are awake. Often we tend to forget how fortunate we are for having got a great family, all the comfort and joyful experiences. I am writing this blog during this time of quarantine reminding myself about the number of blessings that i would have got for the life i am living now. So its our duty to cherish this beauty that life is, by living it soulfully by giving it back with calm,healthy and happy practices. 
I will any-day say meditation and yoga is a foundation strategy for soulful living. The practice of quieting the mind is in essence, letting go of all that you know so that you can grow. A meaningful time of reflection and silence is a powerful tool to realizing your soul’s purpose. Give yourself permission to be still and simply breathe, while systematically releasing the troubles and issues in the foreground of your mind. One way to meditate is to focus on your breath, a mantra, a vision of peace, or softly repeat a prayer for 15 to 20 minutes. During this reflective time, allow the stillness to open the door to your soul’s gentle guidance.
The secret of a joyful life begins with discovering your greatest gifts and having a clear sense of purpose each day. Centering and meditation is the ground work of personal clarity and success. This isn’t about expecting a lightening bolt of awareness to suddenly strike, revealing the answers of the universe which sounds awkward rather like a rocket science, rather -meditative practice brings awakening clues and very subtle revelations of your soul’s inner most truth.
Spirituality is a very important habit to be nurtured and tuned in life. Its not something to be studied rather something to be developed out of belief not necessarily out of fear of god rather prominently out of faith in goodness. I believe its the sense of belonging that one should adore to keep them wiser and healed beyond the chaos of surrounding. Its not an absolute path to be followed but i sense it as a major way of how you visualize the power in yourself.  
Conceive your ideas and experiences and convert them to your path makers. Self actuate and feed your soul with compassion and positivity. Take your time and break the superior norms of narrowing the boundaries, settle when tired but broaden the limit.
Breath and spread the joy of living.

Love
-Rare Voice-

Soulful Living

It's never too harsh!

Some days in life you might think that things are going a little too fast or you are going through a lot, but I urge you to read the rest of the blog just so that you will understand the real picture of this emotional game.

Whatever is happening is just a part of a big plot, what we have to do is to be just calm and steady because all of this is going to flip within the next few minutes. That is how life is but it is very tough to believe in time which is much ahead of our understanding, but that belief is the key to peace. You just have to focus all of your soul and energy in believing upon the good that you have got and just breathe so that you won't waste your time in the negativity right now but you are preparing yourself for all the good which is yah, yet to come. Most of the time you just feel that you are in a big pit but that is not the case it's just a phase of life that you have to endure and surpass because this is how it is, not every day is going to be good and happy. Once you go through the bad you'll understand what good feels like. Mostly how things end badly is when people start interpreting what you are saying in their sense of understanding and it's completely normal to get misunderstood because there is a big emotional coefficient which is different in everybody and is at play here everytime, the most important thing to remember is nothing is unhealed with time.  Make sure that when you are at peace communicate all that you want to in the purest form to the person who is important in your life so that things don't go that wrong because communication and patience are the keys to an easy life.

Be very stable and independent so that you don't have to keep the pressure of satisfying another person 24/7 because when you become a liability to another person is when there is a bigger rush of negativity in any relationship be it your family or friends. Liabilities are the problem creators.

Always surround yourself with kind of energy which you want to be involved with, understanding your wavelength and finding people who hold that space and share that energy is basic. Prioritize who to look up to, there is nothing selfish when you are prioritizing yourself first and your happiness first, be it keeping few people away from your life or not turning up for any function because you feel it is not of any use or it is going to harm you in your growth and peace of mind.

The only person responsible for the events happening in your life is you hereafter be it happiness or those gloomy days it all lies in you how you tackle it. It's very important to love yourself and self train to be selfish rather be unapologetic based on time and situation. The world is not going to be the idealist place and not everyone is going to please you indeed, be ready for reality and be flexible.

Be the storm wrapped in skin.

-Love-
-Rare Voice-

Fear of Loss?

Afraid of losing the person you love? Sometimes it all change and you won't see the happy fancy forever partner to pamper you anymore...